Valentine’s Day is often characterized as the most romantic day of the year. Steeped in tradition involving the exchange of tokens of affection like chocolates, roses and gifts, Valentine’s Day also is a popular day to propose marriage.
It’s possible to separate popping the question from standard Valentine’s Day celebrations. Here’s how to shape a proposal that is heartfelt, personalized and presented with genuine emotion.
Be intentional
Before planning the proposal, reflect on what your partner likes and what matters most. Consider their feelings about gestures, namely, whether they like intimate moments or grand displays. The proposal should fit your partner’s personality and not be about grabbing more social media likes. Start with good intentions that suit your partner.
Find the setting
Select a setting that is meaningful and doesn’t veer into cliche territory. Look for places with personal significance, such as the location of a first date or a spot tied to a shared memory. The location even can be a special spot uniquely special to your partner, like a park bench frequently shared with a grandparent who is no longer living. A new destination that reflects your future together also is a good option. Scout out any areas in advance to ensure privacy and a smooth experience. If the proposal will take place outdoors, have a Plan B ready to deal with weather or any other obstacles.
Make the day flow
Consider the proposal like a mini movie that’s not a standalone moment, but part of a greater narrative. Plan activities leading up to the question. Have a meal together, walk through a favorite neighborhood haunt or exchange gifts as is customary on Valentine’s Day. These touches set the scene for the day. They may also hint at what’s to come.
Incorporate personal elements
Include touches that call to mind your shared story. Details from inside jokes to beloved songs to objects with sentimental value can elevate this special moment. If family members or close friends are especially important to your partner, figure out a way to incorporate them into the proposal.
Leave room to celebrate
So much emphasis is placed on finding the right words and moment to pop the question, but don’t forget about the afterglow. Knowing your partner will help you decide whether you should move on to a romantic dinner after the proposal or head to a place where phone calls sharing the great news can be handled immediately. You also may want to spend a cozy night reflecting on this life-changing moment and all that’s on the horizon.
Valentine’s Day proposals are wildly popular. But those considering popping the question on February 14 can still find ways to make their proposal unique.
