President of West Virginia University at Parkersburg Dr. Torie Jackson visits the new Parkersburg High School cross country locker room and the PHS cross country team Friday, Sept. 12. (Photo Provided)

Last week I had two special friends of mine visiting the new Parkersburg High School cross country locker room at the PHS Annex

One was Dr. Torie Jackson — president of West Virginia University at Parkersburg, and Olivia Reeder, vice president of Institutional Advancement at WVUP.

To my surprise I received a picture of the two ladies and my son George. Dr. Jackson also sent me a picture of the new locker room along with the entire 40 members of this year’s PHS Cross Country Team.

Below is the speech that Dr Torie Jackson presented to the team:

Today, I had the privilege of speaking to the PHS Big Red Cross Country team before practice, and it reminded me so much of the lessons running teaches us all.

To the Big Reds: thank you for letting me share my story with you. Remember, every step, on the course and in life, is part of a greater journey. You can accomplish absolutely anything you set your mind to.

I get so excited to see young adults support school children, and students of all ages academically and in sports and advising them to be strong individuals with characteristics and great personalities. Those people who choose education as one of their professions know there is a need out there and when they help in different ways give them extra satisfaction inside, knowing and hoping if not just for all but just a few of those students would listen to their teachers, principals, coaches, etc.

Let’s face it, to be a teacher is not an easy job. It takes a lot of skill, passion, understanding, and in general to have kindness and to share all that with your students.

Children need love, attention and someone to listen. Also they need encouraging words and if they don’t hear them from parents, they turn to grandparents, counselors, and teachers, and I hate to say sometimes they ask advice from a friend and that’s not always a good idea.

Make sure to try to always make your child feel important, that way you build confidence in them, and they will carry that through their adult life.

I think a child will remember more a kind and encouraging word and praise from someone instead of a negative comment. There are some words that you can use to make your child feel good.

You are special and unique, You’re intelligent and you have what it takes to be successful. I’m proud of you! I love you! You can change the world!

Honestly, it’s not only children, but adults also like to hear those words as well.

There is a tough world out there and no one will take care of your child as much as you ,so don’t ignore it. take the time and be passionate with them. At the same time, make them feel needed.

Unfortunately, one discouraging word can change your child’s attitude.

At the same time make sure you discipline your children. It takes wisdom and empathy, and it takes a good supply of patience. Kids at times act disrespectful and disobedient. Don’t ignore it, do something and do it quick before it’s too late.

Don’t forget the first concert this Sunday at the Blennerhassett Middle School auditorium at 2:30 p.m. Children up to 18 years of age are no charge, make sure they have an adult with them.

Two weeks are left for our Fashion Show fundraiser Saturday, Oct. 4, at the Parkersburg Art Center in downtown Parkersburg. Doors open at 5:30 p.m. and the event starts at 6 p.m. Don’t delay to purchase your tickets, they’re selling out fast. I will guarantee you will have a great time with entertainment, the best male and female models and clothing from Hornor and Harrison, Teri Ann’s, Baker and Baker Jewelry and Crown Decor & Gifts. To purchase your tickets, call or text Terry at 304-481-0364 or Carla at 304-482-9503.

I’m very excited about judging the annual Parkersburg News and Sentinel cookbook, I hope you emailed your recipes in. I have many many more other activities coming up but I will take a few at a time.

Important notice. I have a friend that is offering a beautiful piano and a beautiful organ at no charge at all. If you are interested and if your church needs one of those or your family or friends, let me know. Text me at 304-615-5454 and I will make sure you get in touch with her.

I have another exciting project that I want to share with you, with one of my groups that I belong but I will let you read my article in the and then you will know! Many blessings to all!

P.S. Don’t forget this Parent Page is printed only once a month on the third Friday!

Till next month.