(Letter to the Editor - Graphic Illustration/MetroCreativeConnection)

Over the years I have made many friends. Some I’ve known since grade school. The newest who I met only a week ago said, “I believe everything happens for a reason. I was praying for someone to help me with my card making when I met you. I’m helping my daughter, who is autistic, make cards to sell.” We began talking at the local craft store and the next thing I knew she was accepting my invitation to the craft room in my home to see what I might be able to offer her and her daughter. We plan to take lessons slowly, going step by step, to increase the skills they already have learned.

Some friends I only talk to every year or so. The day before I had a colonoscopy a girlfriend called me and said I had been on her mind for over a month and she wanted to catch up with me. Whenever she felt that way and did not follow through something would happen to that person. Ended up I had a perfect report with everything going as scheduled.

Then there are the friends I check up on. Some I touch base with every few days because we enjoy discussing our similar hobbies. They have family members who are in contact with them almost daily.

Other friends who have little contact or no contact with loved ones I try to talk to about every day and sometimes more than once a day. Sometimes we just need to know someone is thinking of us. Doesn’t matter what we talk about or how long we talk only hearing that voice on the phone letting them know, “I’m here for you. You are not alone in this world.” Once in a while I hear, “Who would have thought I would end up like this? If it wasn’t for you … I’m all alone in this world. If God wants to take me now I’m ready.” I reply with, “I’m glad to know you’re ready but don’t be in a hurry. I’d miss you,” or something like that. In the back of my mind I worry someday my friend might rush things along. I certainly hope not. She has to know she is important to me and she is never a burden. I always try to let her know she is never alone. When she is by herself she has God and if she wants vocal reassurance I’m only a phone call away. (We talk on the phone because she is severely afraid of being around others and catching COVID-19.)

Friendship is a gift you earn by caring about others. Friendship can be casual or most important thing on Earth. Think about it. What type of friend are you?

I am thankful for my many friends.

Bonnie Eaton

Vienna